Fall has always been my favorite season. When I was a little girl I couldn’t wait for new school clothes, new friends, and a new teacher. As I got older, it seemed as if it was always the season for new beginnings. And since 1994, being involved with Dare 2 Share, it has also meant the opening of a new student conference tour season – the fruition of months and months of hard work and planning.
Almost always these “new beginnings” are positive. But this season has brought some transitions that hold a bittersweet place in my heart:
- Ministry friends move on – More than one close friend I’ve done ministry beside for years has been called to a new mission. But Carol Ann’s departure this month has hit me the hardest. I have been serving beside this wonderful woman for over 6 years and I can’t imagine doing ministry without her. I know God is going to use her in amazing ways to directly serve those in need in her new role. So how can I argue with that?
- Rick reaches 50 – My incredible husband has spent half his life with me! That in itself is remarkable. I am SO thankful that his MS is stable and he remains in pretty good health – but my heart is broken because he continues to struggle with his job. He is the most loyal person I know and has weathered a lot of company ups and downs but is daily reaching the edge of his tolerance. Pray for God’s wisdom for him, it isn’t easy for a 50-year-old to embark on a new career.
- TJ is getting ready to graduate – Tim has worked so hard! And although he has changed schools and majors, his degree fits him well. A bachelor’s in broadcast production with minors in interactive and digital media. Well done, son! He is a gifted writer and editor with an eye for understanding the audience. I am excited for him and nervous for him all at the same time.
- New mission at Dare 2 Share – We are finalizing a new mission statement and with it will come more focus. I can’t tell you how excited that makes me! We have gone back to our “roots” so to speak and I truly believe the change is God-ordained. Now comes the hard part of shedding away those things that don’t fit – and while I recognize that this is necessary for us in many ways, it is still a fairly painful process.
- New church home – We decided to begin worshipping at Northern Hills Church. We love the format, the people, really just about everything! Except the drive, that is. It’s 30-40 minutes on a great day, but it’s worth it. We have met some new friends and it’s been exciting but I feel the “tug” in my spirit as my connections with old friends has trickled away to virtually non existent. I miss them terribly and wish I could be in two places at once.
Transitions are always exciting because they bring the new and unknown, the fresh air of change. Bitter and sweet.
October 20, 2008 at 2:27 pm
When you write it down on your blog it’s amazing to see everything that has taken place in the past few months. It was a totally different place in life, but I remember as I was coming out of college the significant life changes that took place in the span of 3-4 months: started PT as a Youth Pastor, graduated college, wedding & honeymoon trip, Youth Pastor job went from PT to FT, and then we found out we were pregnant. Good times for sure.
Isn’t it amazing that through the “storms” and transitions of life that we serve a God who is faithful and true!
October 24, 2008 at 4:53 pm
Hi Debb!
Thank you for your encouragement on my blog. You warmed my heart. I can’t believe that it is already time to take the “words off the wall” (so to speak 🙂
I can relate to how you are feeling. I will be praying for you. I miss you! Take care and hang in there!
love ya lots!
October 30, 2008 at 11:15 pm
For the record, the transition of leaving working beside you has been difficult as well. Good thing we have our morning check-ins and random calls. Miss you friend! Sunday mornings really aren’t enough now are they. 😦