I’m reading this great book entitled, The Life You’ve Always Wanted by John Ortberg. It’s a book about spiritual disciplines, something I know very little about. As I began to read it a couple of weeks ago, I realized that Mr. Ortberg knows how to communicate this heavy subject in a very practical way, using language that even I understand.
One of the chapters that really hit me between the eyes was titled “An unhurried life.” He talks about how people these days take time more serious than eternity. He describes how obsessed we are with “fitting it all in” and describes how hurry and love are basically incompatible. Upon reflection it was easy to diagnose.
I most certainly have “hurry sickness.” I am always wishing for more time. I wonder if I will ever be content…
The scariest part is that I believe him when he writes, “The most serious sign of hurry sickness is a diminshed capacity to love. Love and hurry are fundamentally incompatible. Love always takes time, and time is one thing hurried people don’t have.” Wow! How convicting is that!
God has provided several opportunities for me within the last two weeks to prove my patience and dependance on Him. My prayer is that I continue to heed Mr. Ortberg’s advice and practice “slowing” my life down in order to wait on the Lord and expand my capacity to love (especially those closest to me).
This passage in James provides a reminder to continue to “stay the course” and rely on God:
“Take the old prophets as your mentors. They put up with anything, went through everything, and never once quit, all the time honoring God. What a gift life is to those who stay the course! You’ve heard, of course, of Job’s staying power, and you know how God brought it all together for him at the end. That’s because God cares, cares right down to the last detail. “
Pray that I stick with it.
September 12, 2007 at 3:57 pm
Love hearing your heart Debbie. We all have to fight against the hurried sickness. Great reminders. I often think of the verse: ‘Be STILL and KNOW that I am God’.
September 12, 2007 at 4:04 pm
Friend, this is such a poignant topic to me right now as I’m trying to figure out how to be a good parent. My mom and I have always had a strained relationship — partly because I felt like I could never get her full attention. She was always busy doing housework or cleaning and although I know she loves me it never felt like she heard me. I’m so so convicted about the need to set work aside and truly focus on Oliver and Tyson to make sure I’m giving the people I love my full attention. This obviously translates to me spending real time with God also.
September 13, 2007 at 10:13 pm
This is a very appropriate post in terms of digging in and refusing to let the “hurry” and urgency of this busy season take us off task of loving others! I commit to working on this, too! I loved your insight! May we all slow down and remind our loved ones of how truly important they are.
September 18, 2007 at 4:21 pm
Welcome to the world of blogging. I’m also reading a book on spiritual disciplines, “Celebrating the Disciplines,” by some dude with the last name Foster. Like you, I’m definitely learning how little I know about an area of faith that I need to be more committed to.
(Don’t worry, I’m going back to work now) 🙂